Friday, September 20, 2013

Did you know that you are prejudice?

Are you racist or just flat-line prejudice? Is there a difference between the two?

-A racist believes that one race is superior of another-  
-One who is prejudice has preconceived opinions-  

Prejudice or pre-judging is ignorance or limited knowledge. A Racist is prejudice and holds power to change or encourage. Being prejudice is oh so simple and many people in the World are guilty of pre-judging.

Now let’s break this down=  

All of us tend to have prejudicial attitudes towards other people, places and things. This type of prejudgment is sometimes based on not being educated about the subject or at the highest level--- ignorance. Now let’s be real... Prejudgment is a normal human response to new things, changes, and such issues dealing with racial, social, religious, sexual, and other forms of differences.  For example, if you hear someone say all Hispanic food is spicy or all Black people like Hip Hop music, both of these statements are prejudgments. Most of the time when a subject is different from the norm, human beings without being educated or with limited knowledge of the subject tend to prejudge. With that being said everyone is prejudiced in some sense and realistically no one is exempt.  Even the most educated person can be prejudiced because their understanding of another person’s way of life can be different; which can result in a prejudgment attitude.  Only a mature mind rather educated or not, has the ability to suspend judgment until all the evidence has been received.

Have you ever heard that there are multiple levels or types of prejudice?  It is safe to say that all human beings are prejudice because if you have ever decided not to go somewhere, try something new, or meet someone different because of what you have heard, your emotions, or due to a learned behavior, you are prejudice. Stereotypes or believing what others say about or preserve something as, this is the cognitive level.  For example, all Asian people eat rice and noodles. This statement is exaggerated and inaccurate which makes it a stereotype. Stereotypes are the social scripts we have in our heads about others. Can you name one stereotype that is absolutely without a shadow of a doubt--True? Let me know when you find it!  Now when you begin to fear or feel with joy when encountered by another person, place, or thing this level of prejudice is emotional or affective. The emotional level of prejudice is the most important level because even after the cognitive level has been challenged and undermined, emotions allow us to hanging on to prejudice because of the psychological need it fulfills. Prejudice is an attitude and when it results in an action, it becomes discrimination. This level of prejudice is behavioral and it is this level where unequal treatment on the basis of attribute such as race, ethnicity, gender, religion, sexual orientation, age, or social class membership. What level of prejudice do you fall into?  


When it boils down to it, there are levels to this shit… In other words all humans are prejudice it just depends on how much they put into their preconceived opinions. 

Friday, September 13, 2013

Should Child Support be monitored?

In the past, I was anti-child support for many reasons but once I got a taste of a father who makes babies and only provides a few free weekend---NO support what so ever, my thoughts about Child Support became realistic. Child support should be an ongoing payment made by an absent parent for the financial benefit of the child. Child support is a touchy but controversial topic that has become a issue in many households throughout the US. 


Who in their right mind would believe that they could produce a baby and not be responsible for the financial care of the child.
A Dead-beat parent! Rather its a dead-beat mom or a dead-beat dad, each party should be equally responsible for a child or children they conceived regardless of the relationship between the parents. Its not the child's fault if the parents experience issues and at no point did the child ask to be brought into the world so parents need to stop the shenanigans and take care of their child(ren). 


Children need some much more than financial support but without the monetary contributions, children stand the chance of going without the basic needs. Regardless of the occupation of the parents, a child still has to be cared for and to care for someone you must have the cash flow. Rather you are a street hustler, a 9-5 type of personal, or rich as hell if you make a baby support your baby and don't worry about the other parties situation. 


Not paying child support is not a way to get back at the other parent, its a way for your child to resent you and have no respect for your authority. Okay-Ok, that may be a little harsh, but children are not dumb, they know and understand more that you think. Too many children grow up and miss out on a lot because their absent parent choose to go to the club and party instead of taking care of their responsibilities. Speaking of clubs and partying, a dead-beat parent can also be one who takes the child support and does nothing for the child(ren). These parents should be looked down on and prosecuted for their actions.  There are so many issues when dealing with Child Support, I am surprised there is no reality show focused on Child Support!   


So, should child support be monitored, meaning the child support recipient should legally be required to give specific details on how child support money was spent? According to Wikipedia,  in the United States, 10 states allow courts to demand an accounting expenses and spending from the custodial parent.  Now this is where I am on the see-saw about child support. Is it right to demand that the custodial parent, the parent who provides everything for the child, provide proof of how they spend the money that was received from child support? I think I can be mutual and say that it depends on the situation and it's not hard to determine which situations need to be monitored.  Child support is calculated based on the income of the absent parent & the need of the child and in Texas cannot exceed 20% of the absent parents net income. If the parent is not working a minimal calculation is presented. 
Its safe to say that 100% is given by the custodial parent and 20% is given by the absent parent. The reason why I say 100% for the custodial parent is because from experience, raising a child comes with a lot of hidden expenses. This calculation is as simple as 123, and this fact along gives plenty of explanation as to why there should not be monitoring system for child support. Why the hell should the full time parent be required to give proof to the part-time or seasonal parent when the absent parent is not even providing 50% of financial support for the child(ren). 


Ok here we go!---Custodial parents who take full responsibility for their children and support their kids 365 days of the year, should not have to answer to or provide any statements regarding how they support their children. If the custodial parents is the dead-beat and they do not take care of their child(ren) regardless of the child support payments and spend the money received from child support to support their habits, these cases need to be monitored and actions need to be taken against the parent.   I believe right is right and wrong is wrong, so if the child support is not used properly to support the child(ren) then YES require proof.  Just like everything else I think it steps to this situation and it can be handled differently through the government in order to make sure more children are provided for correctly.


Dont be blind--- CHILD SUPPORT IS AN ISSUES









Friday, September 6, 2013

Dallas Cowboys are back on top to Win the Super Bowl 2014!

The Dallas Cowboys-- "America's Team" at one point the best teams in the Eastern Division, will probably be worst then they were last season and no better than the season before. I just had to get that off my chest but I'm still a die hard Cowboys fan!! Football is not my life but I like to watch important games, for instance the "Season Opener".

Football season is finally here!!! This years season opener was a real eye opener for many teams in the NFL. Peyton Manning and the Denver Broncos v.s. the 2013 Super Bowl Champs, Baltimore Ravens was crazy without a doubt! Peyton gave his fans exactly what they paid for with his record-tying seven touchdown passes something no one had done in 44 years. Even better the Broncos put up 49 points on the 2013 Super Bowl Champs, which is something that has never been done in the Ravens 18 year history. Peyton showed his talent and as long as he can stay healthy, I believe the Broncos will make it to the 2014 Super Bowl in  NY/NJ. I think Manning will give every quarterback in the league a run for his money and he proved his position as a front runner with his outstanding performance in the 1st game of the '14 season. 

Football is such a see-saw type of sport, its hard to determine much about the outcome of most games because anything and everything can make the game change lanes. So, say my prediction is a little faulty, as much as I love the Big Blue, I know for sure the Dallas Cowboys will NOT be apart of the 2014 Super Bowl! 
   

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Im BACK

Things in life have been unbelievably crazy for the past year but with my new connections and becasue I know my household is health= LET GO & LET GOD!

I AM BACK & BETTER THAN EVER!!! 

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